Action

and what action will hurt someone,

you never know.

Sometimes an intentional action is misunderstood

and sometimes an unintentional action is understood!

My frame of mind while being in the action

and the frame of mind of the person towards whom the action is made - matters a lot, isn't it?

Does it really matter then, what the action is?

If the doer is in a proper frame of mind and the receiver is in a proper frame of mind - does it really matter then what the action is?

Is it really the words or behaviour then? Or is it only the mind?