Don't fall in love; Be in love!

Till you don't realise that you are love, you will keep falling in love. When I say falling in love, I mean, your love will be dependent on the quality of the opposite person. May be this person looks good or behaves good or there is some quality in him/her, due to which you love the person. When you fall in love, that love cannot survive. A person is changing every moment. Their qualities, nature, everything changes. In no time, you feel, ohh he/she has changed. He/She is not the same anymore. Love has disappeared. But once you realise that you are love, you can't help but give! You become a giver. You don't want anything from anyone, you just want to give.

Understand this, Love is not dependent on the other person's nature/qualities. If your love is dependent on the opposite person's nature/qualities, then you are not in love with the person, you are in love with their qualities. Ignorance is having a list of people - These are the ones whom I love, these are the ones whom I don't. In other words, it means these are the ones, for whom I am ready to give; and these are the ones for whom I am not ready to give/share.

Wisdom is just knowing that you are love. From my side, I am ready to give everything to everyone.

When you fall in love, somewhere you 'want', you expect the person to be the way he/she has been so far. You don't want them to change. There is a hidden 'wanting'. But when you are in love, no matter how a person is, what he does, it doesn't affect the love. When you fall in love with someone, there is love between you and the person. When you are in love, there is only love, nothing else exists.

We say Ohh! She is fake. I hate fake people. Or he considers himself a genius! or He has got so much ego or she does seva only for appreciation. Haven't we said this before? Hasn't this thought crossed our mind before? Do you see what is happening here? There is a 'want'. You want people to behave in a certain way, in a certain manner. Once there is a 'want', you are no more a 'giver'. Once you are no more a giver, the love is gone. Do you see that?

Just know that you are love, then come what may, nothing can affect you. So what! She is fake, ok good. He has got lot of ego, ok time will change him, he considers himself as if he knows everything. So what?